Friday, 23 October 2015

Effective Carreer Tips!

Hello my loves! I hope you all are doing well! I just wanted to share some career tips based on my working experience in the Netherlands for the past five years.  First tip, if you are a foreigner in a foreign country such as the Netherlands it might be challenging to find an ideal desired job, all you have to do is keep persisting in case you are rejected 100 times during your solicitation, never give up. If you are lucky enough and find a job, do your very best to keep it! I have been lucky enough to have a job in the health care, beauty and restaurants in the Netherlands. I have also been working as a social worker and beauty consultant. You do not have to wait for your dream job, just find something doing, while doing the job you found you might fall in love with it. My last but not the least tip is to always have a positive behaviour at work, smile, do not be late at work and dress appropriately.
Nevertheless, It is  very important to find a job you love, find a sheet of paperr, write down things you love doing for example, writing, gaming, cycling, modelling and so on and start a research on company associated with your passion, approach them and show them you are really passionate in their field, create a Linkdin profile!

I hope these tips are helpful!

I love you so much

Ekene Patience

Sunday, 18 October 2015

Red dress & Brown Hat

Hello!!! Happy Weekend!! This outfit is one of my favs ever! I LOVE matching separates. Only these two didn't come together! Lol. I am wearing a red short dress I got from a Lingerie shop in Rotterdam more than four years ago. I really love the quality of the red dress, after all these years, it looks gorgeous and stylish. I decided to style it with my brown hat I got from Paris when we went for my birthday vacation earlier this year. My hand bag is from DKNY and my heels is from Van Haren shoe shop in The Netherlands!

I hope this look inspires you.

I love you

Ekene Patience

White and Gold

Hello my loves! Happy Sunday! This past week I had a business meeting in Veere in The Netherlands! This was what I decided to wear before and after the meeting for a photosession. I feel like I always  tie african head gear on my head, so I decided to use it  around my shoulder to give my look more sophistication.

I recently picked up the white top online, and I decided to wear my white dress as a shirt. I am really loving it. Incase you do not have alot of cloths, you can try to  improvise by using your top as a skirt sometimes or a dress as a skirt in order to create new unique look.
I hope this look inspires you.
I love you so so much! xoxo

Ekene Patience

Sunday, 11 October 2015

Happy Week Lovelies- Tips for Happy Family Life!

 Hello my beautiful friends, I hope you all are having a great weekend! The kids and daddy is visiting grandma today, Am just chilling at home, arranged all my shoes, done my nails, just me time. I advise all women to have me time sometimes, it is very essential.

I just wanted to share some tips with you on how to have a happy family time. so lets begin! Tip one, always listen to your children, give them your  best possible attention when possible.

Avoid contant argument with your husband or wife , it affects the kids. Be kind always, married couple or persons in relationship whould learn how to compliment each other, Have great family time together such as watching old movies, going for picnics, ray always,  eating out in a nice restaurant such as chinese or japanese cuisine.

I hope these few tips where helpful!
I love you so so much!

Ekene Patience

Dress- Vlisco 

                                My dress- Little kids wearing Pepe and Soho Jeans

Tuesday, 6 October 2015

How to take control of your life, career, and family.

Hello loves, I just felt it in my heart to share with you on how to take control of your life. This post will inspire you to take definite change in your life undermining the circumstance you are in.

2015 is almost coming to an end. I hope you have been able to make the best out of it! It is very important and make self-reflection. Ask yourself of you have been able to achieve all you wished for for the year, if not, you still have the chance to do so. All you have to do is grab your pen and paper, and write down all you wish to achieve,  all your issues, what is going wrong, what you like to do, the things that scare you, try to do at least one thing that scares you every day and read some motivational books . Anything that is bothering you, just say to yourself, I can handle it.

You also need to identify what you really like to achieve, and take action and work towards it.

I have been listening a lot to Bob Procter, and have been inspired by him. In life, fear is constant, but you have to do it any way. Take perfect control of your life, go for your dream job, house, and career and do not let anyone bring you down.

In order to become better in the field you do, for instance if you are a model and you want to become a better photo model, all you have to do choose role models, those that are very successful in the field and be inspired by them.
I hope these few tips were helpful!
I love you so so much!
Stay beautiful!

Ekene Patience

Saturday, 3 October 2015


Hello loves, I just wanted to share with you a great news! I have a new job am quite excited about it. Although it’s a bit stressful.  My new job is in the health care sector. I do go to people’s home to help them with house choirs such as dressing the bed, cleaning the house and so on, basically the kind of job you do when you are at your home. I have a passion for helping others that is one of the factors that attracted me to take the job. One of my client is above 80 years.  I do not own a car, so I do travel by bus called Connexxion in The Netherlands.
One of the great things about the bus I travel with to my job is that all the bus drivers are doing their job for free. It’s quite amazing.
Besides going to peoples home to help them, I also do charity work whereby I collect cloths and shoes for less privileged once across the world. I have been able to collect shoes cloths and many more from donators in the Netherlands worth thousands of euros. I encourage you to participate in charity works, it means a lot in helping and touching the lives of people. Absolutely incredible.
I am also a photo model, mother, entrepreneur and student.
My advice for you all in case you are looking for a job! Never give up, keep on searching, especially using the relevant key words can help you spot your dream job. For instance if you are looking for a Marketing job in Amsterdam, The Netherlands. All you have to do is type in Marketing Jobs Amsterdam and you will find a lot of options and choices. There are a lot of sites such as Monster board, Linked in, Facebook and many more to find a job!
I hope these tips were helpful!
I love you so so much
Ekene Patience